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Self Destruction

Self Destruction: Things are going great, so let me throw a wrench in it.

Self Destruction: You deserve success and joy.

Do a self evaluation on how much treasure do you have.

Is your life built on sand or rock.

We are not in this alone, with Gods guidance you have a partner in life, for the success you deserve.

Traits of Self Destruction or self defeating attitude.

Negative Self-Talk: Constantly telling oneself, “I can’t,” “I’m not good enough,” or “I will fail,” leads to a cycle of self-sabotage.
Fear of Failure: Overwhelming fear of failure can cause individuals to avoid taking risks, trying new things, or pursuing goals, thus hindering progress.
Procrastination: Delaying actions or decisions is often a way to avoid potential failure or discomfort, but it only reinforces a lack of achievement.
Perfectionism: Striving for unrealistic perfection can lead to constant disappointment and frustration, preventing satisfaction with one’s efforts and progress.
Blaming Others: Individuals with a self-defeating attitude often shift responsibility for their failures onto others, avoiding personal accountability.
Lack of Self-Worth: Feeling undeserving of success or happiness causes people to settle for less, which limits personal development.
Overthinking and Indecisiveness: Constantly second-guessing decisions or overanalyzing situations can prevent action and create unnecessary anxiety.
Avoidance of Challenges: People may avoid difficult tasks or opportunities, preferring to stay in their comfort zone, which limits their growth potential.
Fear of Success: Some individuals fear success because it may bring added responsibilities or expectations, leading them to unconsciously undermine their achievements.
Self-Sabotage: Engaging in behaviors that intentionally or unintentionally undermine one’s success, such as quitting a job or relationship due to insecurity, is a clear trait.

Traits Of Successful People

By putting God first in all these traits, you’re able to succeed in a way that honors Him. The combination of spiritual practices with these successful traits leads to a balanced, fulfilling life where achievements reflect your faith and trust in God’s plan..

1. Self-Discipline:

Putting God First: Spiritual discipline comes from putting God’s word into practice. Start your day with prayer and Bible reading, asking for guidance and strength to stay focused.
Biblical Reference: “No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness” (Hebrews 12:11).

2. Resilience:

Putting God First: Trust in God’s plan even when facing challenges. Pray for resilience and remember that God uses trials to strengthen your faith.
Biblical Reference: “Consider it pure joy whenever you face trials… because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance” (James 1:2-3).

3. Positive Attitude:

Putting God First: Cultivate a positive attitude by remembering God’s promises. Maintain faith in His goodness and be thankful for His provision.
Biblical Reference: “Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18).

4. Strong Work Ethic:

Putting God First: View your work as a form of worship. Whether in your career, home, or ministry, work as if you are serving God.
Biblical Reference: “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters” (Colossians 3:23).

5. Adaptability:

Putting God First: Lean on God’s wisdom when navigating change. Seek His guidance in prayer and trust His direction when life takes unexpected turns.
Biblical Reference: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding” (Proverbs 3:5-6).

6. Goal-Oriented:

Putting God First: Align your goals with God’s will. Pray for discernment and direction in setting goals that honor Him.
Biblical Reference: “Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans” (Proverbs 16:3).

7. Continuous Learning:

Putting God First: Be a student of God’s word. As you seek knowledge in the world, also seek wisdom from the Bible, letting it shape your character and decisions.
Biblical Reference: “For the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding” (Proverbs 2:6).

8. Confidence:

Putting God First: Your confidence should come from your identity in Christ, not just in your abilities. Know that God is with you in every step.
Biblical Reference: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13).

9. Effective Communication:

Putting God First: Let your words be guided by love and truth. Pray before difficult conversations and ask for the Holy Spirit to guide your communication.
Biblical Reference: “Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt” (Colossians 4:6).

10. Time Management:

Putting God First: Prioritize time with God, making space for prayer and reflection in your daily schedule. Let His guidance shape how you use your time.
Biblical Reference: “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom” (Psalm 90:12).

11. Networking:

Putting God First: Build relationships that reflect Christ’s love and look for ways to serve others, not just advance your personal agenda.
Biblical Reference: “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds” (Hebrews 10:24).

12. Visionary Thinking:

Putting God First: Seek God’s vision for your life, knowing He has plans that are higher than your own. Pray for clarity and purpose.
Biblical Reference: “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord… plans to give you hope and a future” (Jeremiah 29:11).

13. Accountability:

Putting God First: Be accountable to God and to fellow believers. Seek wise counsel and allow others to speak truth into your life.
Biblical Reference: “Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another” (Proverbs 27:17).

God is your partner in life, one who will never leave you and will help guide you on your journey toward a solid future and success.

Understanding that your life here is just a blink of an eye, and He wants you to have eternal life—what a partner to have!

Building one’s life on stone rather than sand is rooted in Jesus’ teaching from the Sermon on the Mount in Matthew 7:24-27 (NIV). The passage reads:

“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.”

Interpretation:

The Rock symbolizes a solid foundation in life, based on hearing and obeying the teachings of Jesus. It represents living a life grounded in faith, obedience to God’s word, and strong moral and spiritual principles. When life’s challenges arise (symbolized by the storms), those who have built their lives on this foundation will stand firm.
The Sand represents a weak, unstable foundation, rooted in ignoring God’s guidance and relying on worldly values or material things. When challenges come, lives built on unstable foundations are prone to collapse under pressure.

Spiritual Meaning:

The Rock (God’s Word): Building on a solid foundation means being grounded in faith, wisdom, and godly values. It leads to resilience and a fulfilling life that withstands trials.
The Sand (Worldly Distractions): Building on unstable foundations represents putting trust in temporary, material, or superficial aspects of life, which may fail during life’s storms.

How You Apply:

This parable teaches that true security and fulfillment come from a life rooted in God’s word and principles. Temporary or superficial sources of happiness may crumble when challenges arise. By following Christ’s teachings, believers can build a life that stands strong against adversity.

Other Bible verses that reinforce this principle include:

Psalm 18:2: “The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer…”
1 Corinthians 3:11: “For no one can lay any foundation other than the one already laid, which is Jesus Christ.”

These passages emphasize the importance of building one’s life on the eternal foundation of faith in God rather than fleeting, worldly values.

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